Dr. Forgan’s advice on ADD/ ADHD

Focusing on ADHD Strengths: Building Entrepreneurs

Does your son or daughter have an entrepreneurial spirit?  Do they set up lemonade stands?  Do they sell cookies or popcorn?  Are they interested in solving problems?  Many kids with ADHD or ADD have an entrepreneurial spirit and keen interest in making money because it’s naturally one of their strengths.  I believe parents should focus on their child’s strengths because your child’s strengths will carry him or her through in life.  Are you building your child’s strengths or mostly shoring up his or her weaker areas?

This TED video by Cameron Herold is another great example of how a child with ADHD used his strengths to start multiple companies.  By society’s standards he is a huge success.  What are you doing to nurture your child’s strengths?

Teaching Students With ADHD: Teacher Help

Class clowns. That’s how some teachers describe students with ADHD.  The class clown behavior from students with ADHD can make teaching challenging and many teachers look for ADHD strategy help from parents and colleagues.  If you are the parent of a child with ADHD then you can give teachers your suggestions for what helps your child at home.  Below are 3 ADHD teacher strategies I believe can help.

3 Strategies To Help Teachers with ADHD Children

1.  Reinforce Incompatible Behaviors.

handsLets say your child with ADHD has busy hands and as you teach he picks at his eraser and tears it into minuscule pieces.  This creates a huge mess on the child’s desk and around the desk on the floor.  The teacher could ask the child with ADHD to put the pencil down and then slide his or her hands under their legs.  Then the student with ADHD can’t pick at the eraser.  This behavior (hands under legs) is incompatible with the behavior of picking the eraser. The picture to the left illustrates how this might look.  It’s not uncomfortable for most kids and, if your hands are cold, it warms them right up.

When I was a kid my mom used this principle on my sister and me when we traveled in the car.  Back then there were no dvd players, iPads, and electronics to entertain the kids.  We entertained ourselves by playing the license plate bingo game or the alphabet game using words from billboards.  A lot of the time we argued about keeping off ‘my side’ of the seat.  I guess all the talking got to my parents and they needed some quiet time in the car.  My mom’s strategy was to fill our mouths with candy so that we couldn’t talk.  She’d buy bags of hard candy for us to suck on and would dish those out when she needed that quiet time.  When our mouths had a sour ball or two in them we wouldn’t talk. That was an incompatible behavior!

2.  Keep them engaged.

When children with ADHD are not engaged in activities they find meaningful, they create their own fun.  Teachers can help children with ADHD by engaging them in meaningful work at their instructional level.  This means not making the work too easy, too hard, but just right.  Kinda like Goldilock’s soup– just the right temperature.

3.  Provide short breaks.

Most kids with ADHD have difficulty sustaining (maintaining) their attention.  It’s especially difficult for children with ADHD to maintain their attention when the task requires ongoing mental effort.  The child with ADHD becomes mentally exhausted.  When this occurs the child needs a break.  What usually happens the child turns and talks to his or her neighbor, plays in his desk, goes and sharpens her pencil—something that gives him or hear a break.  The intuitive teacher learns to recognize when the child with ADHD is at the brink of becoming overwhelmed and intervenes.  This is a proactive way to help the child.  The teacher could (a) allow the student to stand and stretch, (b) go get a drink of water, (c) sit at a table in the back of the room rather than at his or her desk, (d) send the chid on an errand to deliver a note to another teacher, and many more things like this.

If your child has ADHD consider sharing this with the teacher.  I’ve been a classroom teacher and I know teachers are always looking for fresh ideas to help their children with ADHD have a great school experience.  Contact me if I can help you with your child with ADHD.

Home School ADHD Kids

If your child has ADHD you may have considered homeschooling him or her.  Is homeschooling a viable option for kids with ADHD?  I believe the home school option can work for children with ADHD.  Don’t let the myths of homeschooling discourage you from exploring this for your son or daughter with ADHD.

These are myths about homeschooling.

  1.  Homeschooling is socially isolating.
  2. Homeschooling only works in elementary grades.
  3. Homeschooled kids are introverts.
  4. Homeschool kids are ‘different.’
  5. Kids that are homeschooled don’t get into top colleges.

All of these homeschooling myths are false.  Kids that are homeschooled are well balanced, typical, outgoing, intelligent, and attend top colleges.  In fact, many kids that are homeschooled come out with stronger financial knowledge than kids that go to traditional schools.  For example, my daughter is a junior in a traditional high school.  She is so advanced in high school math that she can do trigonometry but she can’t balance a checkbook!  She has had zero education on financial principles. None. Nada.  In my opinion not being taught one financial skills class is a travesty because what do you need to live?  Do you need to do trig? Or, is it more important to know how to balance a checkbook, not go into credit card debt, and understand how to save money?  I argue that knowing how to handle money is more important than trig.  EVERYDAY EVERYONE deals with money.  Few people really use trigonometry in everyday life.  That’s just one example of how kids that are homeschooled can trump traditionally schooled children.

My wife and I are former members of the Florida Parent-Educators Association (FPEA) that serves homeschool families in Florida.  This is a beneficial organization that provides guidance to homeschooling parents, including those parents of children with ADHD.

Home schooling your boy with ADHD works.  Here are some items to consider as you embark on the journey.

  1. As the parent, what supports do I need?
  2. Where will I find curriculum resources?
  3. Will I homeschool myself or look for a co-op group?
  4. Will my spouse help out?
  5. Does my child work well enough for me?
  6. Do I have the time to homeschool?
  7. Do I have a dedicated space for homeschooling?
  8. Are there online resources for homeschooling? (Liberty University)
  9. What opportunities will my child have for sports or music?
  10. How do I register my child with the school district as a homeschool student?

Gifted and ADHD

By Jim Forgan, Ph.D.

There are a group of children that have ADHD and are gifted.  Sometimes I get pediatricians referring children to me for testing because the child is getting in trouble in school because he finishes his work so fast that he becomes a behavior problem.  Teachers don’t always know how to handle boys like this because they are active, energetic, and smart!  Thus, doctors often advise parents to get their IQ checked out because he may be gifted.  This is a good first step to help parents figure things out.  Sometimes additional testing is warranted to assess if there is ADHD in addition to gifted testing.  A small group of children are both gifted and ADHD and Mary Anne and I both test for gifted and ADHD.

I give ALL parents that work with me for gifted testing my Forgan Parent Support Systems Gifted Parent Preparation Program so you you know exactly how to prepare your child for testing.  You also receive all forms that are needed if your child qualifies as well as 12 of my exclusive gifted videos!  These videos give your child a tour of my office, include a message from me, and provide interviews with the Weiss School Head of School and a Palm Beach Schools Gifted Contact person.

My co-author of the book Raising Boys with ADHD: Secrets for Parenting Healthy, Happy Sons, Mary Anne Richey, wrote this piece about helping children that are gifted and ADHD.  Gifted children with ADHD have immense potential for learning but also for distractions caused by their own thoughts. They generally have a variety of interests and curiosities which often set their minds a buzz with ideas and plans. In order for classroom material to compete, it must satisfy their heightened need for stimulation – a tough task!

Maximizing these capable learners’ classroom participation is critical.  Keeping them fully engaged not only benefits the students themselves but also the classroom as a whole. One of the real values of gifted classrooms is the sharing of information and ideas among students.

Of course, parents cannot choose their children’s teachers, but pretend for a moment that you could design the perfect classroom. What would it look like? Critical factors to consider include teacher characteristics, classroom organization, and lesson design and presentation.

Teaching children with ADHD sometimes requires a little bit more ingenuity (and a lot more patience). Teachers who have high energy and are structured and loving but firm are usually most effective with bright, active learners. One confounding factor about these children is that their focus is often governed by their motivation, so it is key to have a teacher who tries to make learning interesting. Having a teacher who can appreciate your child’s strengths and not become too annoyed with the impulsivity, activity level or daydreaming will be invaluable.

The following factors have proven to be effective in maximizing education for gifted children:

CLASSROOM ENVIRONMENT

A positive classroom environment where the teacher has an understanding of ADHD and is familiar with strategies to prompt your child to become an active participant in the learning process.

Seating in a distraction-free area, close to the point of instruction but as far away as possible from air conditioners, high-traffic areas, bathroom access, and other active students.

Provision of a study carrel or separate area of the classroom where a child can choose to go and work when distractions become too great. In some cases, students have referred to these areas as their offices.

Work areas that are kept neat and free of distractions.

Placement of students with ADHD near positive role models.

When possible, core classes that are scheduled early in the day. An optimal schedule for a child with ADHD is to have physical education or recess and lunch at intervals that break up the day.

Supervision, especially during transition times. Especially boys with ADHD are more likely to get in trouble while moving from one area to another.

CLASSROOM OPERATION

Specific classroom procedures established and practiced consistently. In kindergarten, children may need practice to understand how to stand in line, take turns, raise their hands, and wait to be called on before speaking.

Organizational skills taught and modeled throughout the school day, with assistance where necessary. Use of color-coded folders for each subject and a separate folder for homework can be very helpful.

Warnings provided before transitions. For example, “Five more minutes before science.”

Achievement motivators that stress effort and persistence. In other words, the child is rewarded for doing his very best, not for producing an “A” result.

Concept of time-out used as a chance to regain control rather than as a punishment.

Acceptable substitutes provided for motor behavior such as allowing the student to squeeze stress balls or chew gum if permitted by the school. Some teachers allow children to move about after tasks are complete, as long as it does not bother other students. Or they might allow a child to stand beside his or her desk and work.

Sincere verbal praise for specific behavior is invaluable as a tool for reinforcing the desired behavior. Make sure to “catch them paying attention.”

Students should be taught how to become independent learners and how to self-monitor their own behavior.

Frequent visual cues between student and teacher help maintain optimal attention and control  behavior. A cue could be a special sign that only the student with ADHD and the teacher know. This is a great proactive way to help a child.

 

LESSON PRESENTATION

Eye contact established with a child with ADHD  before  key points of instruction are delivered.

Lessons that are challenging without being frustrating.

Hands-on, experiential learning is a favorite for children with ADHD. Their attention to task increases significantly when it is of high interest.

Use of computerized instruction as part of the curriculum is a positive way for most gifted children to learn because it can be stimulating, interactive., and adjusted to ability.

Since many gifted children can be incredibly focused on topics or activities of their choice, an effective motivator can be to allow them extra credit on selected topics with the project to be matched to their learning style. If a boy is talented verbally, then he might research something and present to the class. If he’s good with his hands, he might build a project instead.

Spongebob Causes ADHD?

I recently did some testing with a second grade boy because his dad was concerned about his impulsive behavior.  The boy’s father had a conference with the Palm Beach Schools teacher and the teacher said the boy talks excessively, rushes through his school work, finishes so quickly that he walks around and disturbs other children, and slides out of his chair.  If you have a son does this sound familiar?  The types of behaviors the teacher and dad described could be related to ADHD.  After all, they sound like ADHD types of behaviors since impulsivity and lack of attention to detail are characteristics of ADHD.

The dad continued to say the boy has a short attention span at home, bounces from activity to activity, and does not complete tasks.  The boy does enjoy TV and especially Spongebob.  What surprised me was that the boy’s father asked me, “Does Spongebob cause ADHD?”  I replied, “No.” There is no direct link to Spongebob causing ADHD.  There was a study in 2011 that suggested watching just nine minutes of that program can cause short-term attention and learning problems in 4-year-olds.   Sixty kids were assigned to groups that watched Spongebob, Caillou, or drew.  The kids that watched Spongebob performed lowest on measures administered immediately after the activity.  However the study was severely limited in that it did not test kids before watching TV.  Thus, we don’t really know if these kids were lower to begin with or if it was something about the TV program.

I offer comprehensive testing for ADHD/ADD.  It should include more than just a behavioral checklist or rating scale.  When I test a child for ADD/ADHD it includes neuropsychological tests of attention and executive functioning.  Most kids with ADHD have significant difficulties on these types of tests.  Thus, it removes the subjectivity of a person’s opinion on the rating scale.  Direct testing, observation, interviewing the teacher and parents, are all just as important as any one rating scale.  If you are concerned your boy or girl may have ADHD then contact me to get testing.  Most parents believe the insight gained in testing gives them peace of mind and specific direction for helping their child.  They don’t waste time and resourses doing things that don’t help the child.